Surviving Spouse & Divorce

When everything changes, the money decisions can't wait — but they shouldn't be rushed either.

We help women navigating widowhood or divorce make the next 12 months of financial decisions with calm, structure, and a single trusted advisor.

Practice lead: David Mendoza, CFP, AWMS
Who this is for

You're in the right place if…

  • You've recently lost a spouse and the financial side feels overwhelming.
  • You're going through a divorce and need someone independent of the legal team.
  • You've inherited responsibility for finances you didn't manage day-to-day.
What we do

The work, specifically.

01

The first 90 days

What to do, what to wait on, and what to never do. A short, sequenced list — and the reasoning behind it.

02

Cash-flow stabilization & bill-pay continuity

Account access, household expenses, and income sources kept running while the rest gets sorted.

03

Estate settlement coordination

We work alongside your attorney on probate, beneficiary updates, and asset retitling — without duplicating their fee.

04

Investment policy review and consolidation

Honest review of what you've inherited, what to consolidate, and what to leave alone for now.

05

Long-term planning once the dust settles

A written plan covering retirement, taxes, and goals — built only after you have the bandwidth for it.

06

Family conversation facilitation

When helpful, we sit in on conversations with adult children about gifting, inheritance, and shared decisions.

Practice lead

You'll work directly with David.

At CWT, the lead advisor on your practice is the person you talk to — not a relationship manager passing notes to a planner.

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San Diego

David Mendoza

Lead Advisor · CFP, AWMS
Surviving Spouse & Divorce

David's practice is built on clarity in the hardest financial conversations — widowhood, separation, and the rebuild that follows. He holds the AWMS designation specifically for this work.

Free guide

Loss of a Spouse: A Financial Checklist

A short, practical sequence for the first weeks and months — written by an advisor who has walked through it with hundreds of households.

  • What to do this week, this month, and this quarter
  • Documents to gather (and the ones you can put down for now)
  • The decisions to actively delay — and why
PDF · ~10 minutes

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Common questions

Five things people ask first.

When you're ready, we're here.

A confidential 30-minute conversation. No paperwork, no portfolio review — just a real conversation about what you're navigating.